I Love Him But I Have To Let Go
I love my husband but I can’t let go. I’ve been in this situation before and it’s really painful. One day while surfing the Internet, I came across a book that changed my life.
The author is a psychologist who helped thousands of men get past their infatuation with their wife and realize that they have to be with someone else if they want to be happy.
If you’re like me and you’re trying to let go of the love of your life, read on.
One thing that most psychologists agree on is that most men confuse lust for love. They think that they are falling in love when in reality it’s just physical attraction.
That’s when the so-called relationship problems start. You feel this intense desire to be with this person and when you finally see them, it’s just not right.
So, you try to rush into a physical relationship and this turns into a very unhealthy relationship.
What does love mean to a man?
Most men define love as being rewarded for your loyalty and hard work. To a woman, on the other hand, love means having the ability to provide for a family.
Men, in general, want to be the caregiver while women want to be the provider.
It’s really important to realize that the emotional love a man feels for you is only temporary. He’ll still be attracted to you physically, but the true love will start to fade after a while.
That’s why it’s critical to recognize the truth about how men really feel about love. If you love him but you’re always doing what he wants, you’re not in love with him.
- So, how do you get him to fall in love with you?
- How can you make him see that you have everything that he needs in order to be happy?
- Are you able to open his eyes to the wonderful woman that is inside of you?
- Here are some tips on how to make a guy really love you:
Give Him The freedom to pursue you and love you – Most men want a woman who lets them pursue her.
You may think that men aren’t capable of loving a woman who doesn’t chase after them, but the fact is, you need to allow your man to feel as though he has freedom to pursue you.
This doesn’t mean that you should jump out at him and literally drag him after you, but you do need to let him know that he has a choice. He can pursue you whenever he chooses.
- Give Him A Sense Of Humor And Entertainment – Many women assume that men only want their bodies.
However, the truth is that many men also want a woman who can provide them with humor and entertainment.
This doesn’t mean that you have to replace your sense of humor with dry humor every time you are around him.
However, you do need to try to make sure that you are finding ways to bring a bit of lightness and laughter into your interactions. This will make your man feel as though he is living in paradise with you.
- Be Yourself – The last thing that any man wants is to be with a woman who is pretending to be someone else.
You don’t have to be perfect; just be yourself and let him take care of the rest.
Men are drawn to the confident woman who knows how to handle her own self-confidence and who is confident enough to know that she can meet the demands of anyone.
This doesn’t mean that you should never complain, though.
It simply means that when you are around him, if you start complaining too much you should stop and make it known to him that his life is far more important than your feelings.