If U Love Them Let Them Go
“How can I make my ex-girlfriend love me again?” This is a question many men would like to know the answer to.
Men are not as understanding as women are when it comes to feelings, especially romantic feelings.
You may think that it’s a bit of an exaggeration but there are some men who do still believe that if you love them you can make them happy again.
You have to understand one thing though that these “men” don’t actually exist and there is a way to make them love you – IF YOU LOVE THEM FIRST.
If you are still wondering if you should let them go or if you should stay with them, you need to first understand what causes break ups.
Break ups usually happens because one of two things happened. One of the two is that the relationship was not meant to be and secondly the relationship was ended too soon.
Knowing the reasons why you fell out of love with your partner can help you decide whether or not you should let them go.
Most women who say “I want my ex-boyfriend back” are those who really do love their boyfriends but are just too stubborn to let go.
There are plenty of women out there who just aren’t in love with one guy and are in relationships with men. If you truly love your partner though you are most likely going to want to let them go.
What do you need to do if you love them and want to get them back?
First, be honest. Don’t try to justify your actions or try to convince yourself that what you did is justified.
Yes, you did hurt your ex, but are you sure that hurting them was the best thing for you?
Think about it. It’s easy to look back at your actions now and think that you were just being a good little girlfriend now…when you could have easily been an enemy instead!
You must let go of the anger, if you love them, let them go if you do still love them. Anger can take control and make things way worse than they already are.
If you have decided to let them go, then this anger will come too little too late. If you haven’t yet gotten over your feelings for your ex, then you may not be ready to let go.
It’s never easy to part ways with someone that you have deeply cared about.
When you love someone enough to break up with them, you have to be completely honest with yourself and with those that you are close to.
You have to decide if you love them or not, and if you still care deeply about them after all these years.
You can still try to work things out and move on with your life, if you still feel the same way about your ex. But if you truly have lost all hope, then it is better if you simply let them go.
To fully understand if you love them, let them go. Once you decide that you do in fact still love them, then you can let go and let them go.
Your ex is free to do whatever they want, even if they are heartbroken. But you can’t blame them for leaving.
You can only help them by holding onto the hope that you will ever be able to make things right again, but until then hold onto that hope.
Although getting your ex back would probably mean that you get a piece of mind, you also need to gain some sort of control over the situation.
You need to ensure that you can handle what is to come, including the fact that you may lose your ex-forever.
No matter how hard it is to let go, the best thing you can do for yourself is to prepare yourself for the worst and move on.
You can make up with your ex if you really want to, but there’s no point in doing that if you don’t even know if you’ll ever see them again.