If You Love Them Let Them Go
You want to be able to tell if you love them or not, right? When we fall in love with someone, we often depend on them so much that if they leave us, we feel lost, and we start asking, “how can I make them come back?”
We even cry a lot because our ego has us thinking, “if only I could get my ex back, I wouldn’t feel so lonely and sad.” This is all a packrat instinct that most of us have. But there is a way to win your ex back if you are willing to work at it. I don’t know how you feel about this. It’s a hard question even to answer honestly. On the one hand, some people will say, “if you love them enough, then you can let go and let them go.”
But, there are the others who say, “but if you love them so much if they leave you… it’s impossible!” Well, in both cases, I would suggest you start a new relationship. I know it’s hard to think that you can start anew when you’ve fallen in love, but if you love them so much and you are willing to learn and adapt what worked in the other relationship, then it IS possible to get back to your ex.
However, it starts by breaking off contact. There are many reasons for breaking off contact, and it’s up to you which one will work best for you. But, here’s the important thing: DON’T MAKE YOURSELF WANT TO GO! I know it sounds cliche, but it works. You may feel like you want to stay in the relationship, which is understandable. However, many people feel like their love is so strong and deep that they cannot allow themselves to move on.
For some people, this may be because they have not had the chance to be in a different situation. And you may feel like your situation hasn’t been different enough; therefore, your love isn’t as strong as it once was. If this is you, then you have to change. You can’t put up with this kind of relationship type any longer.
You have to take action if you want to have a chance at changing the direction your relationship is taking. The key is to be able to take some time apart. If you can’t do this, then you don’t deserve to stay in the relationship, and you may feel like your love may feel like it’s fading away.
Some people are OK with letting their relationship go and hoping it will come back. However, if you love them and you don’t think you can cope with the break up, then you need to make a decision. You should decide that you don’t love them anymore and are done with them. Now you can move on and find someone who loves them and cares about them.
You have to do it today if you want your relationship to survive. The phrase “let them go” has been used so many times over the years that it has become a cliche. Unfortunately, it’s a phrase that has no power over people. People who say this phrase mean it when they say it. They mean that if you love them, if you’ve stuck by them through thick and thin, then you should let them go.
What most people find hard when they part ways with someone is how they feel about the future. Most people who end a relationship feel like they have lost their whole life. They feel like they can’t live without that person, even if they don’t want to.
If you love someone and you want them in your life again, you have to be okay with letting them go. You have to be okay with the idea of a broken heart and all of the pain that comes with it, but you also have to accept that the person leaving will never come back to you.