If You Really Love Someone Let Them Go
Wouldn’t it be great if you really could know if you loved someone before you lost all of the connections you had with them? When I found out that my boyfriend didn’t love me anymore, I had a lot of questions. I wanted to find out why so I could fix things and I could save myself some heartache.
Here is what I discovered.
When I lost the love of my life, the first thing I did was to become the person I hated most in the world. I became a walking disaster, and I became bitter and depressed, and I HAD to let them go. Don’t do that! The first step is to get over your hurt feelings and start looking for the person you love. It is possible.
When I needed to know if I loved someone, the second thing I did was to change my attitude. I began to act like an anger machine and was not someone anyone would want to be around. If you love someone, let them go. If you don’t, you must think it is because they aren’t good enough for you. You don’t have to be rude and unkind. You have to be indifferent and ignore them.
And the third thing I did when I needed to find out if you love someone was to let them go. There is no reason for you to keep this person in your life if you don’t want to. They aren’t perfect, and neither are you. Why complicate things if you can just let them go. But unfortunately, that isn’t an option.
If you’re still in love with someone, remember why you fell in love with them in the first place. If they are not a great individual, it’s probably because you aren’t a great individual yourself. If you don’t let them go, they will stay with you and will end up resenting them more for things they say and do than for the love they gave to you. Isn’t that what a relationship is all about?
Once you let them go, they can start acting in a much more mature and responsible manner. They will become someone you can depend on, and they will be showing signs of becoming a responsible adult.
When they do this, you will find it easier to be around them and interact with them. At that point, everything else will begin to fall into place. When you’re in a relationship where you care about someone, remember that they will do the same for you if you love them.
You have to be willing to let them go and move on. They will have a hard time doing so at first. They will question why you aren’t allowing them to. You need to respond to their questioning with, “let’s move on.” If you never want to see or talk to them again, then that’s just the way it is.
Remember, when you’re in a relationship, you’re working for someone else, and when they’re happy and successful, you’re happy and successful too.
- Do you want your life to work for you?
- Don’t you owe it to yourself and those you love to have a fulfilling and successful life?
- Then work on letting them go.
- It will make your life a lot easier.
If you feel like you have a special connection with someone and want them to go with you, you have to ask yourself if you truly do feel this way. When we’re in relationships, we can’t always say no because we want things. The thing is, when we’re single, there’s usually no reason to put someone else’s happiness ahead of our own.
Sometimes people change their minds, but you shouldn’t be afraid to let them go if you love someone. If you love yourself, then others will love you as well. If you love someone and do want them in your life and you’re afraid of losing them, then it’s time to let them go.
If you love yourself enough, you’ll be able to pull yourself up by your bootstraps and find someone who accepts you for who you are. If not, then at least you’ll have a lot less to worry about. Sometimes we all act like we’re perfect, and we think that anyone who knows us will know if we’re happy or if we’re not.
If we don’t act this way around someone else, they may think we’re not happy with ourselves. We need to learn to show our true colors from the inside out. Love yourself for exactly who you are, even if you think someone else does. You’re the only one you can control.